All the society is trying to show you how you should behave and react, including the closest family members. But the real gift is when a child is growing up to be a man. All the seeds planted early now blossom, and the man he becomes is going to have to take a lot of things into his stride as they come. Then he learns what it takes to be a man to be an effective and a valuable member of the very same society. If he is loving and caring, he is soon going to find a wife and start a family that he would like to support with his all heart. But then the trouble begins and a young man sees he is beginning to lose the thread or lose his head, things begin to make so little sense in the end. He cannot cope with the reality any longer despite his greatest needs or his ambitions, he is losing a grip on his life that was supposed to be totally different.
When you look around you would see most satisfied faces, as you leave the house to move through the sun, between the raindrops, and through the snowy landscapes of the nearby surroundings. You could merge yourself with life, just by absorbing the sun radiation and letting it carry you over till the next day until the final day of your life. Unfortunately things are never going to work like this. Most people are already settled into their routines, they are already living their lives while you keep wandering helplessly around the places where there is no one around to guide you. You should be your own ultimate guide that no one should be elbow to move forwards or backwards but that would pose quite a challenge so if you are not feeling ready to tackle the world on your own despite your experience that you have gained so far, then, probably this is no longer a place for you to live purposedly. Without the courage to admit your weaknesses and without the guts to press on you would be ever lagging behind no matter what anyone would say. And when it comes to character shaping you can only achieve it through direct contact with the reality. But that will poison and further harm you, you will not stand a chance to merge if you do not develop some sort of thick skin or capacity to deal with life effectively and on your own. Without that act of courage you would be just stranded on one of the islands of life for good without ever hoping to be seen marooned like this beyond the space and time. That is the golden cage that is awaiting you at the corner where you finally see the golden bars of the cage you can ever get through.